I must be one of the most sexually confusing people ever.
evidence as follows:
- I love rainbows (like if rainbows were considered a single color- “rainbow” would definitely be my favorite… I just LOVE them)
- I am naturally “flirtatious” (AKA I am genuinely nice to *almost* everybody)
- I am 100% comfortable and open with my sexuality. (As long as I am NOT sexualized, but treated as a human being)
- I like boobies. (a good amount- probably because I have small boobies and big boobies are awesome… I would love to “grope” upon your boobs- Thanks for letting me!)
- I go to female strip clubs, not male strip clubs (I feel like the reasoning behind this should be pretty self-explanatory… read above^ also because I can see penises for FREE… why should I pay to have one of those things in my face?! That is most definitely not something I would pay for!… well… maybe certain guys…)
I was going to do this on facebook… but I decided that since I started this blog, I would just do it here.
Do any of those things make me a lesbian? What about bi-sexual? Bi-curious?
I also consider myself a good friend, and to a certain extent I would do *almost* anything for my friends…if one of my friends asked me to put on a strap-on and sex her up, and I seriously considered it, does that make me a lesbian? Does it make me bisexual? Does it make me bi-curious?
What if I actually DID it? Am I a lesbian now? Bisexual now? Bi-curious now?
What if I said that it wouldn’t do anything for me sexually? I mean, it’s a strap-on… clearly, I wouldn’t be getting off.
What if I decided to grab her boobs as I f*cked her with the strap-on because I like boobs? Am I a lesbian? Bisexual or bi-curious then?
Where EXACTLY does one draw the line? and what EXACTLY would make me ANY of those things… or straight for that matter?
Like I said earlier, I am 100% comfortable with my sexuality, I know what I think makes me who (or what) I am, I’d LOVE to hear what other people think about it though.
Opinions? Ideas? Arguments? Penny for your thoughts? I want to hear em!!!
P.S. Yes cheaters! I totally cleared my facebook preferences so you couldn’t tell me what I wanted to hear… tee-hee 
i dont really think that a typically hetero woman having sex with another woman necessarily makes you bi/bi-curious. i dont really understand the term bi-curious unless its about a man. in which case i think it just means he’s confused about being gay. i think being bi (which for a long time i didnt really think it was a real title until i put into these terms..) means that you would actually want a relationship with another woman. i think a one time thing of “i had sex with a girl and it was awkward because its weird being on this end of things and im sure it was terrible for her” just means you’ve been adventurous. fucked a girl a few times? well i suppose the title is at your discretion. i think all women are attracted to other women to some extent so it doesnt constitute as being bi.
so yeah, i think its about wanting to have a monogamous relationship with another woman.
and what constitues as being a lesbian? the total lack of sexual attraction to a man.
but honestly, who doesnt love boobs lol
Gosh darn you Sadie Sue Anderson! I can no longer be the inaugural comment on Amy’s blog!
ya snooze ya lose
LOL
Damnit! I wanted to be first!
LOL Dave!!!
Now that I’ve calmed down about having to settle for second ever comment, here is my comments on the blog/rant:
1.) Great Format.
2.) Unless you want to manipulate other girls’ vaginas to orgasm in some way, you are not even bi-curious. For you to be bisexual you would have to want to be in a committed relationship with another woman. To be a lesbian you’d want that exclusively.*
3.) Your boobs aren’t that small.
*I realize there are other ways to define those terms. Those are just mine.
yep those are my definitions too. i think calling oneself bi/bi-curious is just a way for women to say “LOOOOK AT ME!!” not to be a dck, but thats just been my experience with such things. or when a girl makes out with another and calls herself bi- no you’re not. you just made out with a girl and most likely so that the drunk guy over there would give you a second look
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then again, if you have sex with women often and enjoy it, does that not make you bi? i call myself straight but its not because i want to have a relationship with a man (not at the moment though lol) but because i am sexually attracted to men…
now im confused
The classification of being gay, lesbian or bisexual doesn’t just apply to people who self-identify with them, but also to certain situations. Example: You can have a “gay” experience and consider yourself “straight” as long as the opposite sex is still your preference. If you were sexually involved with a girl and didn’t particularly enjoy it (and have no profound attraction to the other person involved) then I’d say that the encounter could be called “gay” or “bisexual”, but you’re not. Just my opinion. I think a lot of these labels actually create more of the confusion they were supposed to prevent. Humans are naturally curious in countless ways, Which is fine. It keeps things interesting, right?….LoL.